Am I a Sex Addict?
Answer the following questions honestly to assess whether you may have a problem with sexual addiction:
- Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
- Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?
- Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex?
- Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
- Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
- Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
- Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
- Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?
- Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?
- Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships?
- Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?
- Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?
- Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?
- Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?